Sometimes, no matter what you do or say, those you love and respect will misunderstand you. Most of the time it is something that could have been spoken more in depth or given more explanation, but often is not. I am guilty for an unreal expectation of those closest to me to know me well enough to give me the benefit of the doubt as I would. It is not always the case. It so saddens me when relationships are not protected as they should be and things far less important in the long run are prioritized . There is a lesson here which I always look for when things get out of wack......slow down, smile often sincerely, love deeply, take time, show love when hurt is expected, and show grace for everyone at all times(because you can never truly walk in someone else's same shoes). To live honestly, love whole heartedly, never trade trust for suspicion as a first option, let anger linger in dark hallways for days so that understanding will give light to the situation, and never let an opportunity to encourage someone pass by is what I want others to remember about my very short life is up.
I have been a bit mellow tonight and in the quiet of my evening had time to think about some things. Those who know me know that quiet is not usually a characteristic of my daily routine.: ) So I embraced it to meditate on those I love and the kind of person I want to be.: )
~Mel
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